I need your help everyone its a girl relationship problem... I have to post it here..
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No...No...No... You guys/gals did not bored me. What I meant was
- happiness is a choice; how you take things in is your choice,
- Expectation is an idealized thought. Thought w/o communication and reasonable compromising is just love between you and your Imagined friend. If patience or lack of communication skill keep you from real communication and change is not made, this will become mental illnesses - hearing your imagined friend talking in your head
- Mess up / not mess up is - 1st choice that you make. Once you pick that chick, you 2 are a team, that means you 2 have to deal w/ anything together w/o blaming.
- Another reality is - it is always easier to blame the others.
Hope this helps!
- happiness is a choice; how you take things in is your choice,
- Expectation is an idealized thought. Thought w/o communication and reasonable compromising is just love between you and your Imagined friend. If patience or lack of communication skill keep you from real communication and change is not made, this will become mental illnesses - hearing your imagined friend talking in your head
- Mess up / not mess up is - 1st choice that you make. Once you pick that chick, you 2 are a team, that means you 2 have to deal w/ anything together w/o blaming.
- Another reality is - it is always easier to blame the others.
Hope this helps!
you know, lol im totally off topic here, but when i went away for a bit, this thread had just popped up, and im pretty surprised that when i come back, it is STILL right up here on top.... damn guys.
I just skimmed through a bit of it, suffice is to say, youre a good bunch of folk out there, its great to have feedback from multiple age groups, genders, cultures, and attitudes.
. All critisism is constructive, no matter how bitchy it may sound.
.. Everything here needs to be looked upon im the perspective of your time frame. At certain ages, certain time frames seem like eternities, but as you grow out of that age and into the next, the time frame views a wider horizon and a longer perspective. Theres different spheres of disappearance depending on the magnitude of the object of focus. The higher your eye view is, the greater are these spheres of disappearance (or something like that...).
... Here's to good times ahead for everyone. lol.
I just skimmed through a bit of it, suffice is to say, youre a good bunch of folk out there, its great to have feedback from multiple age groups, genders, cultures, and attitudes.
. All critisism is constructive, no matter how bitchy it may sound.
.. Everything here needs to be looked upon im the perspective of your time frame. At certain ages, certain time frames seem like eternities, but as you grow out of that age and into the next, the time frame views a wider horizon and a longer perspective. Theres different spheres of disappearance depending on the magnitude of the object of focus. The higher your eye view is, the greater are these spheres of disappearance (or something like that...).
... Here's to good times ahead for everyone. lol.
Well, back at school now after spring break... good news is that I will got to hte college of my choice now. Well heres the update, I have been doing much better than I have a while back. I have been taking more pictures. During hte break I drove up to San Francisco, Berkeley, and San Ramon to take pictures everywhere. Well about the girl... she has gone a little crazy in my opinion. Over the spring brea she didnt see her bf and thought he didnt care for her. Her last three blogs have been talking about the fact she is now in love with him and she has fear of loosing him. But then last night shes posts a blog saying she feels optimistic of the realtionship... its weird.... All Im going to say is that she is really messed up in the brain... after everything that happened between her and I.
...In my opinion, based upon what VERY little I have observed about her on this thread, she was always crazy. You were just blinded to her insanity at first because of your heart...
And if I remember back, I believe you said she cut herself--- that might have been a clue that something may not be wholly right with her.
At least you're realizing it; the more time you spend drifting apart, the more you'll come to see the whole situation from an objective standard-- at which point you'll look back on this and laugh. Welcome to growing up, JEDI!
Sean
Update.... She has changed alot... she has become a bitch to alot of people. She has problems now with him but they still go out... *sigh* hurts sometimes to see them together... Sometimes what I do when they are walking around since he is bisexual is call him a queer or say when I walk by "Someone loves the cock!" yeah its wrogn for me to do but its funny to see how he reacts... been tough these days I thought I was over her...taking longer than I thought.
You are not the only one. If I could read a print out of my life the "learn from mistakes" value would be overwhelming. Everything my Dad told me to avoid, not waste my time with, don't make the same mistakes as I did,...well I made them anyway and wasted time, money and emotions! Aw to be young again!
Well, for me photography has been getting better... I have saved up my money now for anohter DSLR Im plannign to purchase by the end of May... The Nikon D200. Right now the DSLR I use is good but I need somethign with more resoulution for larger prints and faster motordrive for sports pics. Overall i have been trying my best to get better. My Senior Prom is coming up in May and I cant wait becasue I asked a good friend from college... someone a little bit older than me by 5 months to prom. Shes coming back in May and were going as good friends. Its always great to have friends that are there for you no matter waht. They are like sisters or brothers to me. I'll post a new photo thread soon by the end of this week.
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