I need your help everyone its a girl relationship problem... I have to post it here..
- Thread starter jcz1987
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I wanted to show you guys some of my photography work I did of her... One pic was submitted to a local show and got 3rd place it was the first one of these pics...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture1copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture2copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture3copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Elizabeth212copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture1copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture2copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Picture3copy.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v230/jcz1987/Elizabeth212copy.jpg
Kirby said:
Hehe, I assumed you were joking, I should have added ![[poke]](/images/smilies/icon_smile_poke.gif "Poke [poke]")
- that's really what my post was for....to imply that you were a closet mass murderer, as the article discussed.
- that's really what my post was for....to imply that you were a closet mass murderer, as the article discussed.
![[paranoid]](/images/smilies/icon_smile_paranoid.gif "Paranoid [paranoid]"){kind=icon}
I mean I have burried cars in people's lawns for the insurance money, remember? ![[:p]](/images/smilies/tongue.png "Stick Out Tongue [:p]")
(I'm way too lazy and right-minded to do anything illegal, besides speed all the time.)
My brother went through a relationship with someone like that.......really REALLY bad news. I even noticed that her lunacy started to spill over into my brother. RUN! I know it may sound harsh, but there really is nothing you personally can do; she needs professional help.
It's interesting how each piece of information makes this "puzzle" make more and more sense...
I'm on the edge of my seat waiting for the next bit.
And stick to taking pictures of your car; lol. It'll be a lot less painful.
It's interesting how each piece of information makes this "puzzle" make more and more sense...
I'm on the edge of my seat waiting for the next bit.
And stick to taking pictures of your car; lol. It'll be a lot less painful.
Update.... Big suspicion that it was her best friend behind this the whole time. Her best friend has been flirting with me alot since summer time and everything. I call her sometimes and hung out the week before. She always brings up stories about her and secrets I all ready know. Its the fact I think that now there friendship between each other has been suspicious since they dont talk to each other when they are hanging out in groups. Its also interesting that she has always been unhappy because she sees that I have feelings for her friend and she doesnt ahve anyone to be with but her best friend and she may feel that Im taking away her best friend but she doesnt realizing that shes making things worse if she wont let her and I be together... I have a strong feeling that her best friend was behind everything. i know that girls will turn their backs on one another if they are going after the same guy... *sigh*
P.S. If you check her blog on her myspace blog "semi-charmed life" it shows that she is questioning possibly her best friend and me... possibly but thats what has got me suspicious...
her myspace again... www.myspace.com/ehaffa
P.S. If you check her blog on her myspace blog "semi-charmed life" it shows that she is questioning possibly her best friend and me... possibly but thats what has got me suspicious...
her myspace again... www.myspace.com/ehaffa
I have given up on her.... her best friend called and said she and her ex like each other again and will not get together unless I give up on her... I have decided that she has used me this whole time and has hurt my heart definatley.. .I will never forgive her what she has done to me.. I have to give up for two other people to be happy... why me... why me... I gave my feelings for someone for over 8 months and nothing was given back in return.
I know it really sucks for you right now. You DID get something in return - you learned ALOT about relationships, and, in the long run, you got more out of it than she did. It's tough for you to see that right now, but you WILL look back at this at some point and realize how this crap relationship made you wiser, and will make you future relationships better.
This is NOT making fun of the situation, just maybe to make you laugh a bit:
This is NOT making fun of the situation, just maybe to make you laugh a bit:
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Thanks you guys.. Im at school right now alone in the back room on the interent since I TA the fist class of the day. I want to thank you all for helping me right now especially what Im going through. Im just young and never had my heart destryed like this before. Its the fact she goes out and does this to me.... Liking her since June, rejecting me in August, goes back to her ex, breaks up with ex in October, I ask her to Winterball, feelings get stronger, first kiss, Stop kissing, go to Winterball, then she gets upset about rumors, believes her friend over me, loses feelings for me and goes back to her first ever bf... and now her friend is threatning me saying that I am forced to let go of my feelings so she and someone she use to be with can be together... instead of three people sad... I give up and become more sad for two to be better.... Its time for me to live a new life..
We have been telling you to do that ALL along! LOL...trust me it will get better....just to make you feel better let me tell you a little story about my past:
I was engaged to a girl i had been dating for two years. We lived, eat, slept...we did everything together. Now lets rewind a bit...there was a time at the beginning of our relationship where she and my best friend(not best friend at the time..that came much, much later) slept together in a so-called "drunken stupor". Know how i found out about it? He told me....he told me because me and him were becoming closer and closer and he felt terrible about it....so he wanted to come clean...not saying he was right but i HAD to respect him for "manning" up to his wrongdoing without me finding out thru the grapevine(we are best friends now, he is married-i was his best man, and i am his daughters godfather...funny huh?)....anywaaay....me and the girl didnt break up but persevered thru this trauma....then she got pregnant...now i was planning on marrying her anyway before the pregnancy(it was and IS my child also) so it wasnt a big deal. A big deal was being able to pay for child costs and taking care of my fiancee soon to be wife. So I reenlisted in the military for another 3years(didnt want to do that), decided to leave Germany and start fresh(didnt want to do that), and took another job so i could support my newborn and pay for my wedding. Approximatey one month before my wedding my unit went out for a 3week field exercise. Upon my return everything "seemed" fine...i was about to go on leave for two weeks to get married and take care of paperwork. Paraphrasing here i happened to "find" a letter from her to another guy saying she loved him and if he took her then my son would be part of it too......WTF???? ONE WEEK BEFORE MY WEDDING! DUDE, THAT IS HEARTBREAK OK? I know it seems real to you now but trust me, trust all of us when we say you have the whole horizon to yourself....you havent even touched the edge of possibility yet! That happened to me almost 7years ago......and i got over it....so I KNOW you can do it....keep your head up young padawan....life goes on.....
p.s. i returned to Germany three years ago to find out she was Schizophrenic and had been in the psychological clinic for the past two years(paranoid). Thank God my son lives with my mother while i work overseas.....
I was engaged to a girl i had been dating for two years. We lived, eat, slept...we did everything together. Now lets rewind a bit...there was a time at the beginning of our relationship where she and my best friend(not best friend at the time..that came much, much later) slept together in a so-called "drunken stupor". Know how i found out about it? He told me....he told me because me and him were becoming closer and closer and he felt terrible about it....so he wanted to come clean...not saying he was right but i HAD to respect him for "manning" up to his wrongdoing without me finding out thru the grapevine(we are best friends now, he is married-i was his best man, and i am his daughters godfather...funny huh?)....anywaaay....me and the girl didnt break up but persevered thru this trauma....then she got pregnant...now i was planning on marrying her anyway before the pregnancy(it was and IS my child also) so it wasnt a big deal. A big deal was being able to pay for child costs and taking care of my fiancee soon to be wife. So I reenlisted in the military for another 3years(didnt want to do that), decided to leave Germany and start fresh(didnt want to do that), and took another job so i could support my newborn and pay for my wedding. Approximatey one month before my wedding my unit went out for a 3week field exercise. Upon my return everything "seemed" fine...i was about to go on leave for two weeks to get married and take care of paperwork. Paraphrasing here i happened to "find" a letter from her to another guy saying she loved him and if he took her then my son would be part of it too......WTF???? ONE WEEK BEFORE MY WEDDING! DUDE, THAT IS HEARTBREAK OK? I know it seems real to you now but trust me, trust all of us when we say you have the whole horizon to yourself....you havent even touched the edge of possibility yet! That happened to me almost 7years ago......and i got over it....so I KNOW you can do it....keep your head up young padawan....life goes on.....
p.s. i returned to Germany three years ago to find out she was Schizophrenic and had been in the psychological clinic for the past two years(paranoid). Thank God my son lives with my mother while i work overseas.....
![[rofl]](/images/smilies/icon_smile_rofl.gif "ROFL [rofl]"){kind=icon}
MyHarley said:
for selfish shits and giggles........ ![[screwy]](/images/smilies/icon_smile_screwy.gif "Screwy [screwy]")
I hope to God its more than that. I mean, at least be dimented, evil, twisted, sick, something; don't tell me people are that mean and obnoxious for Shits & giggles. Tell me you were deprived of love as a child and so you now use guys to make you feel special, and use your sad childhood to get attention and use people to make yourself feel better. Tell me that in some twisted way at least somebody is benefiting besides getting a good laugh at someone else's heart ache and sorrow.
And MyHarley, I too saw your post before you edited; I didn't know if it was appropriate to respond to it, but since Andre did, I figure it's ok. I just want to say that I think you're a strong woman for having finally taken charge...not an easy thing to; I really respect you for that. Truly. The issues raised in this thread are difficult because they involved concepts which are hard to understand and control, but it really sounds like you figured it all out...eventually. Nice to know that the "meanies" in this world don't destroy all the good people.